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Probably one of the most emotional topics on the planet. In
all countries and most cultures there is someone somewhere
desperately wanting to know how they can win their ex lover
back. How to win your ex back is this article's stated aim
and whilst we must acknowledge the limitations imposed in
this type of report we can still provide a framework
procedure that has stood the test of time.
The framework technique I'm going to show you is a little
unusual but it has been know and used in one form or
another since time immemorial. It works!
To begin with I must first mention a system I created which
I call the 5D Wheel of Fortune. It's the foundation of my
take on 'How To Get What You Want From Life'. Limitations
of space prevent me going into detail with each of the 5D
stages and I can't even begin to customise them to the
'Help Me Get My Ex Back' scenario. However, briefly the
stages are as follows. They begin with 'Clarity', knowing
exactly what you want, then they take you through
'Motivation', 'Strategy', 'Action' and 'Optimization'.
In this article it's the 'Strategy' element I'm going to
concentrate on. This spoke on the 5D Wheel of Fortune is
called 'DESIGN your blueprint'.
It's here where the 'Ancient Secret' mentioned in the
article title comes in. Referred to as 'The Four Powers of
the Sphinx' it's an ancient magical maxim which you may
have heard quoted somewhere. It states: "To Know, To Will,
To Dare, To Keep Silent." The power of this little maxim to
help you 'DESIGN your blueprint' is phenomenal. Use the
framework this provides and your strategy can hardly fail.
So, these four 'Keys' then. What do they mean and how are
they to be applied?
TO KNOW - In it's simplest form this just meant 'knowing
what to do' but implicit in that is 'knowing how'.
Knowing what to do here is taking an in depth look at your
skill-set. We are talking about your 'ability' to do
something. An example. Want to be a world famous concert
pianist? Then you need a thorough understanding of music
and the ability to be able to play a piano. It doesn't
matter how much you 'want' to be that concert pianist, it
doesn't matter what you 'do'. If you don't have those
prerequisite abilities it's never going to happen. You must
first backup and reset your goals. Learn music and practice
piano. Then perhaps you can move towards the attainment of
your dream.
So when we talk about 'TO KNOW' we are looking at your
ABILITY. You must have this. It's a key, a cornerstone to
achieving anything.
Do you know what skills are involved in winning your ex
back? Yes, there are skills and they will be the essential
tactics you must employ. Your blueprint must detail the
skills needed exactly. It will be your working strategy.
TO WILL - something of an old fashioned term that gives the
idea of forcing something to happen by concentrating ones
mind power on an objective. But what does that mean anyway?
It's obvious that you must concentrate on your desired
outcome but of course there is much more to it than that.
The words 'desired outcome' are the clue. We are talking
about your DESIRE, that driving passion that comes from
deep within. Again, to achieve anything in life needs that
special drive, that zest that gets you moving and more
importantly keeps you moving. Without this passion you'd
never get past the first encountered difficulty. Indeed,
without out it you wouldn't even get started.
TO WILL is looking very close at your DESIRE. Nobody can
give this to you. It's part of you. It's either there or it
isn't. Again this is a major key to being successful in any
endeavour. It's the second cornerstone and it cannot be
left out. It does not matter how much skill, knowledge or
ABILITY you have. Without a passionate DESIRE to do
something a successful outcome, or at least a meaningful
one, is highly unlikely. It just won't happen.
It may seem an unnecessary question to pose but do you
really want your ex back or are you operating from a place
of hurt and pain that's clouding the issue? Can you put
some real passion into the work that lies ahead. You need
to 'know how' and you need to have the 'will-power' to
drive you to take 'controlled-planned' action. Which brings
us nicely to ....
TO DARE - This is not the macho stuff of so-called dare
devils. Nothing reckless here. Controlled planned action is
what we are talking about and TO DARE is about having the
courage to do something different. This is the action stage
where doing is mandatory and yes that may indeed take
courage but here TO DARE, in modern terms, means acting
outside your comfort zone. Simply put, again in modern
terms you may have heard it put like this... 'If you keep
doing things the way you have always done them, you'll keep
getting the same results you've always been getting.' And
that's not what we want!
You have to have the courage to move out of your comfort
zone and dare to do things in a different way. It's the
only way to get different results. ACT now and DARE to be
different. Again a major key, a cornerstone that cannot be
removed. You must have the ABILITY. You must have the
DESIRE, and you must take real appropriate ACTION, even if
it is on unfamiliar territory. that's the kind of courage
we speak of when we say TO DARE. Can you operate outside
your comfort zone?
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TO KEEP SILENT - The last of the 'Four Powers of the
Sphinx' and one many people have failed to fully
understand. Not surprising really as it does seem a little
strange especially in today's fast paced highly
communicative world. But it's not really that difficult to
understand if you get to the real core of what's meant
here. In fact, I think because of our modern technology and
the world having become so 'communication orientated' in
the last few decades this last power of the sphinx has
probably become even more powerful and important than it
ever has been. Let's look closer.
Unfortunately this TO KEEP SILENT power causes a lot of
controversy because it generates a lot of weird ideas about
the dissipation of psychic powers etc. Well I'm not going
down that road because people of that persuasion have
missed the point entirely.
Even in standard contemporary psychology there are
contradictory schools of thought about whether you should
commit by sharing publicly or 'keep your own counsel' or a
third school of thought which says, share yes, but only
with those who are trustworthy and will give positive
encouragement. I tend to go with the latter group but all
this is still missing the point of what the ancients meant
by TO KEEP SILENT.
Look at it like this. In old mediaeval times TO KEEP SILENT
could be taken quite literally. If you talked too much
about your ideas, your plans or your activities (especially
if they were a little odd or against 'establishment
thinking') then you could be tortured, hung, burnt at the
stake, or suffer other horrendous 'authorised' atrocities.
Keeping silent was a really good idea. But what are we
really getting at here?
It's simple really. Amazingly these things usually are.
It's about how you handle people. That's what it is all
about. That's what it's always been about. Terminology is
the problem. TO KEEP SILENT is an old fashioned rather
poetic way of saying you need to know how to deal with
people.
Today we have the term 'Human Relations'. It's all about
your 'HR' skills. It always has been. Remember this, the
'Four Powers of the Sphinx' are cornerstones to a basic
procedure that's about bringing things into existence.
Without good HR skills you will never be able to achieve
much of anything in this life. All transactions of any kind
need other people. Your ability to interact, persuade, put
your ideas across and communicate in any way is paramount
to all aspects of life. Today more than ever is this basic
fundamental skill absolutely vital. Your success and maybe
even your survival will be determined by your HUMAN
RELATIONS skills.
Again, TO KEEP SILENT, another basic major key, a
cornerstone that cannot be removed. You must have the
ABILITY. You must have the DESIRE and you must DARE to take
real appropriate ACTION. Finally your ability to have
confidence and power when dealing with other people will
determine whether you are successful or not. Your HUMAN
RELATIONS skills cannot work by themselves nor can any of
the other 'keys' work without good people skills.
Your blueprint cannot function without all of the 'Four
Powers of the Sphinx' in place. Neither do any of the
others work in isolation. When you put your strategy
together it must fire on all four cylinders.
Such is the framework provided by the Four Powers of the
Sphinx. It's power does seem magical especially as it can
be applied to all areas of life. However that universality
is why it remains a 'framework'. You must provide the
detail that applies to your specific situation. To Know, To
Will, To Dare, To Keep Silent, needs to be customised to
the 'Help Me Get My Ex Back' scenario.
I asked earlier if you knew what skills are involved in
winning your ex back? In other ways I also asked if you had
what it will take. Whole courses and on-going counselling
are available. Even another full sized article couldn't do
justice to this specialist area.
For example. Do you know what is meant by 'Break-Up
Management'? Are you aware that the process to winning your
ex back actually begins the moment you break-up. Do you
know how to set the stage for future reconciliation? Tip of
the iceberg stuff this.
The detail you will need for your blueprint is not
complicated but it is specialised. You have to have the
correct tactics.
Here is an example of one approach which could be
integrated within the framework of 'The Four Powers of the
Sphinx'. Very briefly the five stages would look something
like this.
Recession Phase - Learn the right way to handle your break up.
Reconstruction Phase - Heal after your break up.
Reconnection Phase - Start to reconnect with your ex and set the stage.
Reconciliation Phase - Getting back together.
Resolution Phase - Staying together, the future not the past.
Using a phased approach like this, implemented via the
methods discussed above would give you a basic tactical
plan of action whereby you could act with confidence and
purpose.
I suggest your plan of action, your strategy, must follow a
similar approach.
Don't just hope and wait and above all don't do anything
that's going to destroy any chance of reconciliation.
Relationship repair is very doable and if done properly
more often than not it's highly successful. You can win
your ex back into your life.
Design and create what you want to happen. Use the
framework of the 'Four Powers of the Sphinx'. Create a
'systematic' approach and make your blueprint a functioning
winning strategy.
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